Many men are sure that the wise wife is a myth which in reality does not have confirmation. The wise wife, according to men, is a treasure and near such woman the man will feel like the knight in the shining armor. The second myth is that the wisdom is given by nature. But it not so. To learn to can do the wise woman quite.
Instruction
1. Accept the man it what he is, with all merits and demerits, pleasures and problems.
2. Begin each new day with a smile and a tasty breakfast, you do not spoil mood to either yourself, or the husband notations and a gloomy face.
3. Do not prevent the husband to be engaged in any occupation or a hobby (to repair the car, to watch football).
4. Do not threaten the husband because of any quarrel with a divorce or the fact that you will pack things, will take away children and will leave to mother
5. Understand and accept the fact that the man is tired at work, and you do not ask him on arrival home at once to help you about the house.
6. Except men's ""remarks"", you remember what men and women love differently. They have various ideas of love, different priorities in life. When the man steeps in a solution, it is not necessary to give to it advice, to climb to it with a talk, and it is better to wait patiently when he finds a way out of the situation, will solve a certain problem. Then it will be gentle and loving again.
7. Respect the husband, his plans, secrets, thoughts. Do not criticize, listen to his opinion. Do not humiliate the husband even at the moments of quarrels and scandals. Keep the human dignity, respect others and respect yourself. Do not assume that you were humiliated and offended.
8. Develop. Do not leave alone the husband in intellectual development. Do not become isolated on a family circle: house, life, husband, children. You have to have interests, the hobby. To you it has to be interesting to husband to talk not only about a tasty dinner and about child at school problems, but also about policy, literature, art, cars and you never know about what.
9. Remember that your irritation is a sign of ill-breeding. Just it is better to tell the husband that you have some problems and to understand own feelings and thoughts. And if the husband is the reason of your bad mood, especially it is necessary to talk to it about it, but not to complain to mother or girlfriends.