The alcoholism problem in family can become causal its disorder. Life with the man who regularly abuses alcoholic drinks can become really intolerable.
Instruction
1. Realize that in your family there is a problem if your spouse begins to depend on alcohol. The more often and more he drinks, the further him tightens alcoholism. The behavior of such man becomes another. Unreasonable aggression, tendency to violence and indifference to important vital aspects become its constant satellites.
2. Understand that if your husband does not want to struggle with the dependence, further your family life will become it is worse. Over time it will become absolutely impossible to rely on your spouse. If you have children, they also will begin to suffer from alcoholism of the father.
3. Talk to the husband, quietly, but it is very serious. Only choose the right time for a conversation. To lead a discussion with the spouse who is drunk or suffers a hangover, not structurally. Explain blessed that you cannot see further how he ruins the and your life, and offer the help in fight against his alcoholism.
4. Support the husband if he agreed to treatment. If he cannot independently stop drinking, you need the help of the narcologist. There is a set of methods of treatment of alcoholism: with use of medicines, hypnosis or psychological assistance.
5. Remember that if consumption of alcohol poured out for your spouse in dependence, he needs to stop drinking once and for all. About any restrictions out of the question. Reduction of a dose – not an exit for the alcoholic. So the dependence will not disappear and through some time will gain new strength.
6. Promote a healthy lifestyle in your family. Find hundred and one ways to you with the husband to enjoy evenings, days off, holidays and a holiday without alcohol. Let your husband will understand that without alcohol he does not lose something, and on the contrary, opens the whole world.
7. Keep in mind that if your husband as many alcoholics, does not realize existence of a problem and does not agree to treatment, the only exit for you to lead normal, full-fledged, happy life the divorce is. It is not necessary to sacrifice himself to the one who does not want to struggle with a disease. It will not lead to anything good.
8. Know that supporting the alcoholic who is not going to change the life, you do him a disservice. If you get divorced from husband, it can become for him such shock which will allow to revise the behavior and to improve. Unfortunately, there are girls who do not understand it and continue to suffer, mistakenly including themselves involved too in what the spouse began to drink. It is not necessary to overestimate the influence on the choice of the free person.
9. Do not pose as the heroine. It is possible that among wives of alcoholics there are such persons who ego-trip at the expense of the useless spouses. Against the background of such defect their own shortcomings and weaknesses become absolutely imperceptible. And thanks to a daily feat which is made by the woman living with the drinking man as if other her mistakes and misses will bathe.