The person who loves himself more than the rest of the world, it is difficult to call lovely. Tender and gentle the woman are done not by(with) fight against the passions, and sincere love for people and care of them.
Instruction
1. Stop to raise the voice. You do not shout, trying to obtain understanding when the opponent is near. Do not raise the voice neither on children, nor on the beloved. Children to become isolated, and the man will stop loving. Even friends will not understand. Nobody could defeat anybody in high decibels yet (except a nightingale robber). Shout convinces people around only of your helplessness and inadequacy. Look at yourself in a mirror when you with foam at a mouth prove the case. Are goggled, cheeks and a forehead red, veins on a neck were blown up. Faugh!
2. Listen more, than you speak. And not just listen to the interlocutor, and put yourself on his place, empathize. It will be reflected in expression of your person and will prompt right silent words of sympathy. Most often the person needs such support. Your half waits from you for such behavior.
3. Change the behavior and habits. It is difficult to call the lady lovely and gentle if she smokes, drinks beer from a bottle and uses foul language. Stop to spit out and be thrown by things. It is possible to be lovely and gentle in soul, but to be masked on itself the savage and the vulgar rowdy. Take off this mask and put on another! Japan is sure that the mask on a face grows into soul over time. If to hold the person long with gentle and lovely expression, then something eventually will fall down inside. People around, having got used to you smiling, careful and tender, just will not allow your negative feelings to escape outside. You also actually will become such.
4. If you as at all times, meet on clothes, change clothes. Change image. Recolour violet "mohawk", take off "leather biker jacket" and take out piercing from language. Try to be published in a cream lacy blouse or in an elegant classical dress. Now braids and a natural make-up are very fashionable. Why don't youWhy don't you try this style? Your darling will like a print sundress with a decollete and naive ruches.
5. Do not argue with everyone and at the slightest pretext. Remember at Pushkin: "… also do not challenge the fool". It is quiet and reasoned prove the case only to the one who is dear to you whose opinion really is important for you. Listen to those whom you do not respect silently and, remaining with the opinion and not spending sincere forces, you leave. Well, if you lovely and gentle, then have to be still clever and proud. Believe, any man will not be proud of the wife troublemaker.
6. Be not afraid to be with darling the foolish little fool. Give him the chance to feel near you strong and clever. To keep rest in family, One is a wise trick: I clever should be so That the silly woman to look with you. The woman can rouse the darling to any feats only tenderness and caress.