Sometimes views of reproduction in family disperse. If the spouse does not want to bring children so far, there are several methods to convince him. It is important not to insist too strongly, and just to create suitable conditions.
Instruction
1. Begin planning of pregnancy with a conversation about children. Choose suitable time when all are quiet, nobody to hurry anywhere. Discuss when he would like kids as you overcome on this question. It is important not just to speak about the desires, and to hear also the words of the husband. Perhaps it will be possible to come to a compromise which will suit all parties.
2. Communicating, pay attention not only to words. Sometimes the reason of unwillingness of children consists in fear to have posterity, in horror before additional responsibility. It is important to learn whether your man has such emotions, or something else prevents it to speak about pregnancy. It is necessary to find out the main reasons of unwillingness, bright future, sufficient income or comfortable housing can does not happen therefore it is not necessary to wait for these stages.
3. It is possible to remove fear of children by means of other families. Find couples which already have kids, you visit them more often. The spouse has to understand that pregnancy and the birth of the son or daughter is happiness which does a life wonderful, but not difficult. At the same time it is possible to trust him a carriage with the baby that he began to get used. Sometimes just the husband lacks knowledge of how to raise small children. Meeting these lacks, you can quicker incline him to consent.
4. Regularly you say to the spouse that your life would become more joyful if you brought the baby. You say about how it is important for you how you dream to take his son or the daughter on hands. Your enthusiasm can be infectious, perhaps he will want to help you, will agree with your desires. But here it is important not to do all this too often if to speak every day — it will begin to irritate. Be accurate, be not fond, but also do not refuse conceived.
5. It is possible to become pregnant by means of deception if to stop being protected, but not to tell about it to the spouse. Of course, it is not the best method as it can guess or it is very strong be upset from similar news. Usually use it in the most extreme cases, the outcome is unpredictable, the man can even refuse to accept this child.
6. In the worst case you can present the man with a choice: either reproduction or divorce. It is done only by those women who understand that they will have no other chance to give rise. After 40 years there comes the period when it is necessary to use the last opportunity. And here any more not to have to choose the husband or children, it is necessary to work, but not to wait.