Often men explain the cooling with words: ""It did not become interesting to me"". And what means to be interesting?
Instruction
1. Of course, it is necessary to find the general subjects for a conversation, to be able to keep up the conversation - it is important. But for long communication or marriage of it insufficiently. Common goals, orientation on some general task really important for both are necessary. It can be anything: work, hobbies (giving, travel, sport, art), education of children, creativity, public work. The main thing that interest both was original, but not formal, ostentatious. The woman who applies for the long interest of the man has to be not service staff or a beautiful toy, namely the worthy partner in love, common causes and hobbies.
2. Often women accompany the man and pretend, as they are keen that to him it is important. But long so to pretend to be it will not turn out. It is impossible to become happy, leading others life. To be interesting to the husband, interesting herself should be, first of all. Do not give up hobbies and hobbies for the sake of the spouse. And if they are absent, find them. It can be dances, skis, knitting, floristics, etc.
3. Self-realization - a necessary condition of maintenance of interest at the partner in marriage. Living long together, people know each other well and often lose mutual interest. Not for nothing spouses are compared to the read books. Be a person who constantly grows - professionally, socially, creatively.
4. You watch yourself, dress tastefully, be modern, learn to present yourself to people around. To be near such woman any man will be honored. He will be proud of the fact that you together and where there is a pride, not the place to boredom there.