If you already managed to have heard plenty from lazy and inept women that ideal marriages do not happen, then it is necessary to dismiss all these wrong thoughts urgently. Things happen! And still as! We with the husband live together many years, still very happy in love and passionate. The thing is that ideal marriage is built by the woman. The happy marriage is a daily hard work. I will share with you own secrets thanks to which in my room there are regularly flowers, and the husband for many years with admiration calls me "the most amazing woman in the world".
Beauty
In each family the wife is a person. It has to be smart: harmonious, beautiful and well-groomed. Even if the husband grew a beer stomach and released a prickly beard, do not dare to relax, justifying oneself thoughts "To it it is possible, and I, what is worse?". You just have no right of to dismiss.
Every week (1-2 times) I retire to the bathroom for a couple of hours with an epilator, tweezers for eyebrows, manicure set, creams masks and other female features. Ideally, if at this time the husband there is no house. Thanks to these to "hours of beauty" at me always smooth and well-groomed skin, beautiful hair and stylish nails. My darling sincerely considers still that all this by nature and regularly admires me before the friends.
Somehow, having got to the men's company, I heard that men on a face discuss with a disgusted expression how their wives shave legs and armpits, cut nails, putting them on a bumazhechka directly at them. Lovely girls! Let's save husbands from these details of the physiology. If after these words some of women begin to shower me with tomatoes and to claim that "in true love it is necessary to know about each other everything, nothing can be opposite" or foolish "what is natural, then is not ugly", you do not trust them.
Economy
I speak at once, against joint housekeeping if the wife does not work. If both of you come back home by the evening tired and hungry, then will demand beastliness from you here "You are a wife, give prepare". And if you stay at home … I was always revolted by unemployed girlfriends who take offense at husbands for the fact that those do not help them about the house. Duties have to be accurately divided. For example, he – earns money, you – equip a cosiness. Thus, household quarrels will disappear. Everything, as at work. The list put for which everyone is responsible.
I get up in the morning when the husband leaves for work. Surely I feed him with a hot breakfast (absolutely easy since evening to knead fritters or to prepare all necessary for omelet)! After that quickly I bring order (if not to start, there are enough 30-40 minutes), I prepare something tasty for lunch and a dinner. Farther at me plenty of time for and my small business. By the way, I am very much helped by culinary forums. Communicating at them with little girls, I can please every day with ease the husband goodies. I do not buy sausage, pastries, any semi-finished products.
Presently to bake cookies much cheaper and more tasty and to prepare a good piece of meat. And having allocated day a month, it is easily possible to stick "house semi-finished products": stuffed peppers, pelmeni, vareniki, cutlets and other. Thanks to them you easily will be able to be too lazy several days, but at the same time not to feed the beloved husband with a store muck. Besides, we have an exotic day. once a month, during week-end I cook unusual, original and exotic dishes. My man adores these days.
Children
We have two beautiful and beloved children. Since the birth of the senior daughter we started a set of family traditions: holidays, output, a holiday, departures on the nature, "game days", evening readings and many other things. The husband perfectly knows in what days we plan will organize any given action, remembers in what hours we are engaged with children (I for this purpose presented it the completed daily log) therefore he can always correctly distribute the time and make plans. We have no quarrels because he left on fishing instead of games with children. He just plans the entertainments for the day off. Maybe all this sounds quite chilly, but we spend a lot of time with beloved children.
Sex and relations
When I was absolutely very young, too took offense at the husband and blamed him that it does not do me surprises, does not arrange enchanting nights. As a result understood that just my man is not capable to sit and invent inscriptions on asphalt at an entrance (but at it it is full of other advantages!). I began suit it surprises and sexual games. Thanks to it, we managed to keep passion still. What is interesting, over time darling began to answer me with the same. Over the years it turned into a fascinating game, we invent all new original surprises and gifts for each other and at the same time we rejoice as children. And most important! Never punish the husband sex! Agree once and for all that all quarrels and half-words remain on a bedroom threshold. It will save you from many problems and the majority of scandals.