How to begin a conversation with the girl by phone

How to begin a conversation with the girl by phone

What is only not done by young people to catch the phone number of the pleasant girl. And what then? You hold in hand piece of paper with figures and painfully think out what to begin phone call with. It is pleasant to you, but you are afraid of failure. What to tell the girl?

Instruction

1. Be more ordinary. It is possible just to dial the phone number and to ask, how it affairs. Take an interest as there passes day, show participation and care. If you not the supporter to stir by phone, invite her to a meeting. For this purpose in advance you keep in mind options where it is possible to spend time together.

2. Think up an occasion in which it is possible to call. It should not be something difficult or serious. Just ask it for suggestions concerning preparation of some dish or a combination of flowers of a shirt and jeans. And the conversation will be struck up.

3. Think that you would like to learn about the girl. Ask about its hobby and hobbies, what movies and music she loves. Ask questions better to get acquainted. Remember that the conversation should not turn into interrogation. Alternate questions to cheerful and easy stories about yourself and the hobbies. Perhaps, philosophical reasonings from the "Whether There Is Life on Mars?" series are interesting to the girl throw it a couple of the curious ideas in this respect.

4. There are also recommendations concerning what does not need to be done. Avoid abusive words, roughness, scrupulous subjects. Be not too frank and persistent if the girl for some reason decided not to answer a question. You should not find out also her financial position or to discuss with her her girlfriends or other women. Do not tell about yourself what is not present. If you want to communicate from the girl. Be simpler and say more on neutral subjects.

5. If you very much worry, write down on paper the small plan of a conversation from three-four points. When pauses begin to appear in a conversation, send a conversation to the new course.

6. Having learned the interests of the girl, offer that it is interesting to her. If she likes to walk, call her to boat on the lake. The lover of ice cream and popcorn will suit a joint visit of cinema. If the girl loves history and culture, suggest it to look at recently opened exhibition.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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