Perhaps, you will feel a little more vigorously if you learn the following: more than a half of men do not know how to start talking to the unfamiliar girl. What stops them? Confusion, fear of the fact that will laugh at them (and, as a result, it is all the same rejected), and just ignorance of how it is possible to begin a conversation with the girl.
Well, we will talk on this subject – especially as the problem concerning you is quite solvable.
How the first to start talking to the girl?
The question formulated thus literally shouts to me of the following. You not just do not know how to begin a conversation with some specific girl, no! You does not know as the first can start talking to any girl in general. Therefore my first council will look so.
If you did not get used to be in women's society, begin to accustom yourself to it – to get used to feeling that you are surrounded by representatives of an opposite sex. It is the simplest to begin training with supermarkets and shopping centers – here you will have no problem of that as well as in what occasion, the first to start talking to the girl.
In supermarket you can ask any girl or the woman whether it is worth buying this product and that in general can be prepared from it. Any of them will not refuse to answer you even if she her answer will be simple I do not know.
Even more scope is provided to you in department stores. Ask female shop assistants and customers of their opinion and councils – about anything! Whether there is to you this shirt, what shoes to pick up to a suit of such color that for a grade of toilet water now most be fashionable … All women, irrespective of age, adore when they ask for help in similar questions of them.
In other words, you say with girls (and women) as much as possible and on any subjects as only in such a way you will help the subconsciousness to jump over a barrier with the inscription How to Start Talking to the Girl.
Do not expect that the gift of the gab will go down on you suddenly, on wave of heaven, – at once as soon as you see the ideal in the hurrying crowd. Skills of communication are demanded from the person of the same trainings, as well as by his body. Believe, the ability to begin a conversation and to support him is an art which it is possible to perfect all life.
Take into consideration here that. The men who masterly mastered technology of flirtation achieved it only because often get into conversations with an opposite sex. At the same time they do not think at all of in what will pour out and what the conversation with the woman or the girl which they begin will end with. Why? Because most often they begin this conversation not with the erotic purpose, and just just for fun, without tormenting themselves with a convulsive question as it is better for them to start talking to the girl.
Entertainment! Here we also called a word which will be your Gold key.
I am afraid to start talking to the girl!
Some nightmare. And why you are afraid to make it if not a secret? You are so sure that you by all means will run into the satiated lioness who will look at you through a shoulder slow full up and down and is lazy will tell: And there would be you, the guy …? Believe me, in most cases there will be the return. Most likely, before you there will be a girl who will experience full confusion too from the fact that you started talking to her, and will feel too is held quite down.
And while you will feverishly think of how to you to start talking to this girl, she – also feverishly – will decide that to you to answer if you with it, after all, after all start talking. By the way, you know how many times to me, at the time, were necessary to hear a phrase from familiar girls: What I du-at-hurrah that did not answer it!? Correctly, you do not know. And I will also not tell you because you all the same will not believe me.
Do you remember the word entertainment given above? You look at the forthcoming contact quite so. Would you be afraid if you should approach and start talking to some man? I doubt. Then what you stops in a case with the girl? Fear what she will give you from gate turns? Maybe. But, perhaps, is also not present! Why you completely deny in advance such option? And suddenly you will find in it the person with whom you will communicate many years! However you never learn it if you do not try to approach it, isn't it? I hope that you love the sea and are able to swim. For this reason I will formulate the second council so. Next time, when you want to approach some girl, and your Subconsciousness in reply will in panic hiss to you: You what, went crazy? I am afraid to start talking to the girl! - remember the sea.
What are you doing, when you appear on the unfamiliar beach? That's right. After all you come into water. And, if water allows, float deep into. If a current very strong – just you return to the coast.
How to begin a conversation with the girl?
Really, I something all around yes near. And indeed, how to start talking to the unfamiliar girl so that she wanted to support a conversation with you?
At first I will tell how it is not necessary to begin a conversation. Forget all phrases compliments which are related to her appearance and sexuality. And I mean not only phrases of type: What tremendous legs (breast, waist) at you! Her expressive eyes and magnificent hair leave alone too – you will tell it about them when you are with it already very much, well are very well familiar. Rasslablenno-neprinuzhdennye approaches of type: Such beautiful girl – and one … curtail into a tubule too.
Pay attention to how it is dressed, to some trifles which will seem to you interesting – for example, an unusual medallion, hours, a bracelet. Tell it about it or just ask a question from what country, for example, this thing or that it itself symbolizes.
Here what is told by one young man: I saw it in supermarket and did not know how to start talking to it. On it there was a blouse with the inscription I love glamour. So I took courage, approached it and asked: Sorry, please. And what in accuracy means glamour? We got to talking and, after all, exchanged phones.
How still it is possible to begin a conversation with the girl? Look whether there is no something at that moment near you what you could pay its attention to and that you could comment neutrally. Perhaps, you stopped together at the newsstand and read together the same heading? Do not miss also this opportunity!.
Just it seems to me - or you, really, disappointedly shrugged shoulders, having thought: And why I read all this? Where will I look out for these medallions, especially, in the winter? And who now on spirit needs some newsstands and in general newspapers?
You are right, right and once again – are right! Because the most valuable, almost unmistakably acting, I artfully reserved council for the subject How to Begin a Conversation with the Girl? requested by you (for the most patient) on the end.
So, when you will see the girl with whom you would like to get acquainted, approach her and tell the following: Girl, I'm sorry, please. I can ask your phone number? I very much would like to see you once again.