In the society of acquaintance and communication solve a lot of things, the more at the person of acquaintances, the it is more than chances to promote in life. Often not professionalism, but ability to successfully strike up acquaintances and allows to communicate to the person to achieve success. And for this purpose it is necessary to be able to begin a conversation with the stranger.
Instruction
1. First, it is necessary to begin to collect information which is useful at acquaintance. Weather forecasts for a week, the schedule of buses, rules of filling of documents, jokes, at last, easy crossword puzzles on which you will find answers in advance.
2. Secondly, it is necessary to practise much in front of the mirror in smiles and greetings. Your mimicry should not give uncertainty. Then you pass to practice in field conditions, that is at stops of buses, in turns, shops begin to smile kindly to strangers, looking in eyes. The effect can be stunning. If ask why you smile, answer that the face of that at whom you look is pleasant and still there is a wish to lighten the interlocutor the mood. Already at this stage you will see that a conversation there will begin more often an unfamiliar interlocutor.
3. Thirdly, it is necessary to realize that people near you lack communication, and there is nothing bad that you will strike up with them a conversation. Presently simple, warm and sincere communication becomes huge deficiency and the people who yearned on it will be grateful for an opportunity to introduce the ideas. It is necessary to concentrate on ability to listen, nod and support the interlocutor. They need to be fulfilled on acquaintances and friends. As a bonus it will improve already available relations.
4. Fourthly, you pass to actually practice. For this purpose in a situation of communication it is necessary to allocate what unites you with the unfamiliar interlocutor. For example, both of you freeze at a stop waiting for the bus. At first with a faint smile look at the person to whom you want to communicate, and tell that if to trust the schedule, to wait still, for example, for 10 min. Look away and keep silent a little to show not persistence. Then pass to weather; it is possible to tell a joke about weather forecasters, then to talk about warm clothes, about the prices, about work, about itself. The main thing is not to be afraid that you will be rejected; well-mannered people will never ignore the benevolent and cheerful interlocutor. It is easy to begin a conversation - if it is correct to do everything and to develop skill, you soon will have many new acquaintances.