Before trying to start talking to the woman, be convinced that she is located to communication. It can be understood on whether she frowns, whether it speaks by phone, whether it is busy, etc. To begin a conversation, you should not think out in advance prepared phrases: the conversation has to be unostentatious, it is possible slightly in a playful form.
Instruction
1. If you already once saw each other, try to learn about its interests and preferences in advance. If you see it for the first time, try to draw attention with a non-standard question. It is quite good if in it there is also a humour share, for example, in cafe at cash desk: "Do you love mulled wine too? And as it is pleasant to you with honey or with cognac more?" or "I see, you ordered mulled wine. You know, here prepare it from the ancient recipe of my grandmother". Then the girl will go for the table, and you will choose the town far away from her meanwhile.
2. When in its glass there is less than a half of drink, ask the waiter to send it just the same mulled wine with a note in which the recipe "from the grandmother" will be specified (it grotesquely can be represented by hand in a cap and an apron), yours a name and the phone number. Make an addition in the spirit of "The granny asked not to disclose the mystery of preparation of this divine drink until I do not greet the girl with the most charming with a smile in (the name of cafe)". If the girl slightly is confused, will smile, will begin to look for you the interested look, can safely approach her table and ask for permission to sit down.
3. And further it is possible to continue a subject of drinks ("As you think, other mulled wines are here too good?", "And you are able to cook mulled wine?") or to begin to speak about another ("The cozy town, you often here are?"). Only do not forget to be presented once again before it or think up something more original: "There now, you already know about me very much, and I do not even know your name, help to correct misunderstanding". Then continue a live conversation, without forgetting to smile and behave it is natural.
4. If from acquaintance to the girl you are kept by fear to tell some nonsense, then for an intelligence training daily read fiction, it is better classical as modern writers in the works minimize a lexicon and turns of speech. Daily reading will help to formulate more accurately your speech and will save from filler words. Day by day your speech will become less tongue-tied, and you will feel much more surely.