Some people have problems in communication. Not because they are silly or brought badly up, not at all! The fact is that they or are timid or too delicate. For such person to fall into an awkward situation or to expose itself tactless – the real torture. He wants to get into an argument, he likes the girl, but he does not know how to be at the correct loss for words to start a conversation! He is tormented by doubts: whether correctly will understand whether will consider shameless, impudent. As it is correct to begin a conversation?
Instruction
1. For example, you want to communicate with neighbors on a compartment. There is nothing more simply! Beginning of a conversation of type: "The road is necessary distant, let's get acquainted! My name is …" in most cases, works smoothly.
2. If you consider such beginning too banal, it is possible to choose some subject which for certain will interest attendees. Only it is better to avoid a talk about what can cause strong passions and a controversy. You remember a wise precept of professor Preobrazhensky: "If you wantIf you want to keep health and good digestion – do not say till a lunch about the Bolshevism and medicine!"
3. Some person seemed to you interesting, you want to get acquainted with him, but do not know how to begin a conversation? Good option – at first ask it some unostentatious question, or ask about simple service: Whether "You will prompt …?", "Report, please …" After its response remark it will be much simpler to begin a conversation, the first contact took place!
4. If the girl, for example, bears a bag which obviously for it is heavy, here God ordered to tell: "Resolve, I will help to inform you of a bag!" Try only at the same time that your voice sounded vigorously and cheerfully, but did not shiver for nervousness, and especially do not shiver. In that case the girl can suspect you of infringement of her property, and or is resolute refuse communication, or cry: "Guard, plunder!" And you want not such reaction, truly at all?
5. If you met the girl who very much was pleasant to you, in the museum or theater, then track her reaction at the sight of some picture, the play or the actor's game. If it obviously delighted, consider that you were lucky, and at the first opportunity express also the admiration: "What beauty!" or "Today it just fantastically played!" After that the conversation will go "like clockwork".