People meet, fall in love, and then, is unclear for what reason, leave. Always so was, and nothing will change. Therefore after parting it is not necessary to despair and be depressed. Life goes on also demands from you active actions. You should not pay all the attention to last problems, focus on the future. To begin the new relations very easily, it is much more difficult – to hold the partner.
Instruction
1. Exempt yourself from antecedents. To start the new relations you have to forget the last partner. But you should not begin if you are not ready to connect the life with other person yet. Nothing has to burden your future relations. Make sure thatMake sure that the previous partner does not apply for your attention any more. If you were is married, finish all procedures with the section of property.
2. Draw conclusions for yourself from last failures. Think on whose fault the relations collapsed. Perhaps, you will learn for yourself a lesson not to repeat former mistakes.
3. Look narrowly at possible future partner whether you will be able to stand him, whether he will stand you. If between people there is no mutual understanding then about any relations out of the question. Make sure thatMake sure that you do not walk twice into a same water. If you once again choose the same partner, the probability of one more failure in the relations is high. You have to know precisely that this person is ready to remain with you forever.
4. Build the future with the partner. Will not prevent to replace the place of residence. The new situation will allow you to focus on the new life, to leave all old behind. If there is no such opportunity (finance does not allow, it is convenient to reach work, children have close to a school or a garden), make repair, you will throw out old things which remind you of the former relations, buy new. Update everything around yourself to unrecognizability that reminded nothing to you and your new partner of the past.
5. Get new joint habits, rituals. Get acquainted with new people. In the old companies you will be constantly asked about ""former"" or to compare to ""former"". Now you have a new life. And even the shadow of last relations should not disturb and confuse you.