How to begin to live separately

How to begin to live separately

The question of separate accommodation with the parents arises in the head of the young man or girl from the moment of approach of teenage age. And how independence wanted at this time, it is necessary to approach reasonably this question and to consider all options of resettlement from parents.

Instruction

1. Think where you are going to live. If you have the apartment which got from the grandmother (grandfather) or parents to you got already it on the future, then the question of a living space disappears by itself. It is necessary only to persuade them to give you the chance several days to live separately. The reason of such desire can be explained with the fact that you want to stay some or the silence is necessary for you to be prepared well for examinations. If parents go to you to a meeting and will agree to accept the offspring's privacy, then consider that they are already mentally ready to your further resettlement to the apartment.

2. In case of flat refusal of parents try to reduce desirable time of your stay on the apartment. It is possible to try to linger long on the apartment, justifying oneself, for example, that decided to make shift and accidentally forgot about time. If your parents have no car by which are immediately ready to come tearing along and bring you to the otchesky house, then they will allow a night to remain to you in the Penates. And there the issue of resettlement will be gradually easier to be resolved.

3. Unfortunately, not all young people are provided with the living space now. In this case there is an option only of renting of the apartment (room) at other people. If parents understand your desire and are ready to pay rent every month, at the same time to feed and in every possible way to provide your existence, then you were fantastically lucky.

4. At the firm decision of parents not to help the teenager with his independent accommodation, it is necessary to provide itself. And here it is worth thinking of work. If you have a lot of free time, then it is not necessary to puzzle how to combine lectures, preparation for examinations and work. But it is frequent in case of training in any educational institution, free time of the student is strongly limited. Weigh everything "pro" and ""against" whether" you will be able to pull rent of the apartment (room).

5. If your desire to live is separately big, and opportunities are strongly limited, there is one more option – the dormitory. There you not only will be able to spend a little for accommodation, but also cheerfully spend student's years.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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