Loss of mutual understanding happens when someone from the parties consciously or not does not seek to strengthen already developed relations. It conducts to quarrels, long silence, a distance and loss of communication with each other.
Instruction
1. Do not hide the feelings. Put them not only into words, but also through acts. If it became difficult for you to understand each other, remember what relations connected you when you only began to be together. Try to focus on personal feelings which you had at that time, and still think what your qualities could attract to you the loved one. Such memoirs are useful both to loving couple, and to restoration of mutual understanding between parents and children or good friends.
2. Trust each other. Try to talk more about what concerns you, pleases, makes you happy, etc. In daily vanity not many people pay attention to it, however only by means of words you will be able to understand feelings and state of mind of other person. Silence – gold, but this rule it is hardly possible to call suitable when relatives need moral support, long without the reason or just begin to move away from you.
3. If you ceased to understand each other because of a quarrel, do not shift fault for the incident only to others shoulders and you do not blame external circumstances. Begin a blamestorming session with yourself. Why you arrived quite so, but not differently? What could become the reason that the friend or darling refused to understand you? And kind of you arrived on its place? After the similar analysis surely draw conclusions from own reflections and try not to repeat mistakes.
4. Understanding does not come to people just like that if they for this purpose do nothing. Be not afraid to offer someone the friendship or to give a helping hand. And if you lost the former relations with darling, are not ashamed to take the first step to correct a situation. Let know to the person that you do not want to throw away feelings, really expensive to you. Perhaps, for this purpose you will need not just to look for personal meetings, but also to change something in own behavior.