Today practically each married couple which lives in marriage has various problems which very often become the cause of a divorce. And it concerns not only young families which undersigned "foolishly", "on pregnancy" or for some reason, and and families which lived for many years matrimonial life.
How to avoid a divorce, it is possible to speak it is constant and useless. Here it is necessary to define accurately and clearly the reasons, circumstances and adequately to assess a situation. If people went to sign papers about a divorce, means on it, there are reasons. But if it is inevitable, but it is necessary to try to keep the normal relations. Most often, women decide to get divorced, they endure it process a little easier, than men. For men the divorce is a loss of property, that is his woman.
If the decision on a divorce is based on this problem, then you should not change it. There is no need to torment themselves and to begin to live separately, people have to be able to face the truth and to make categorical decisions. You should not confuse loss of feelings with the difficult period of the relations which people in love endure the place. If you had no feelings in relation to the soulmate then respect for the person with which you lived some time in one house and filled up has to be present at one bed. Therefore in the next half a year you should not begin the new relations or at least not to advertize it. From outside it is possible to think that treason became the cause of a divorce.
At a divorce the main thing to keep children's mentality and the normal attitude towards each of parents. That is the child needs to be protected from quarrels and scandals which influenced the decision to divorce. Try to explain to the child in what the reason, better if at a conversation there are both parents. If someone one talks to the child about it, you should not tell bad things about other parent, the child's attitudes towards him can not exchange, and here to you will change for the worse. It is necessary to be able to keep the authority and advantage.