Acquaintance to the person – always the disturbing process raising a set of questions. It is important to understand how to behave at such moments what to speak about and what to feel. Depends on it whether there will be your further relations or not.
Instruction
1. Make sure thatMake sure that the place where you are, is suitable for acquaintance. If you see that the person hurries on the affairs, perhaps, it will be better approach him at more favorable for communication of circumstances. It is the best of all to get acquainted in the situation suitable for this purpose: in the park, in cafe, in club and other pleasure institutions.
2. Recognize the person closer. Ask him simple questions of in what he is engaged, what interests and a hobby, tastes and addictions, etc. at it. After that tell about yourself in the same key, but do not praise highly yourself and you do not tell anything false.
3. Behave naturally. It is not necessary to pretend to be someone another and to think out nonexistent lines of your character. Prove to be that who you are is actually, avoid falseness and excess details. Do not go deep into details, tell only what your acquaintance needs to know first of all
4. Show attention to the interlocutor. Do not interrupt the person and do not show very clearly that it is boring for you to listen, try to give the conversation another turn as a last resort smoothly better. You remember politeness and the standard of speech. You speak distinctly, be convinced that the interlocutor understands you, and it is also interesting to it to listen.
5. Keep a positive spirit smile more. You look to the interlocutor in the face. It is possible even to touch slightly him, but only if you already feel freely at a conversation.
6. Finish your meeting, having thanked the interlocutor for had a good time with him. Tell that it was very pleasant to you to communicate. If everything passed well, it is possible to take an interest whether your new acquaintance has plans for any given day and to agree about a new meeting. It is also desirable to exchange a contact information: to leave the phone number or the e-mail address. At parting you can embrace the person or shake hands with him.