When the love of the guy and girl to each other can sadden nothing, they are really happy. But for various reasons between fallen in love by a time "the black cat runs". Then their relations become frosty, tense, business can reach even a gap. Such cases, alas, are frequent. Then before them there is a question: how to treat the former darling.
Instruction
1. A lot of things depend on that, how exactly there was a gap: rather quietly, or it was followed by a storm of emotions, scandals, mutual reproaches and claims. In the first case absolutely nothing prevents the former lovers to keep good relations, to remain friends. In the second case for this purpose it is necessary to put a lot of effort.
2. Even if you feel offended, offended (for example, the girl in the heat of a quarrel told many unfair words), show generosity. You are a man, and girls is raised are emotional, vulnerable.
3. Inspire in yourself: the girl, most likely, not quite realized that she speaks, she was in captivity of emotions and offenses. She was upset too by your gap. Besides, it will want to few what guy that looked at him with special attention, trying to guess: whether strongly he worries because of break in relations whether he feels wounded.
4. Therefore, having appeared in such situation, behave with the maximum restraint and advantage. Let you left the girl, but it is not the reason to consider each other enemies, having nursed a grievance. It is not necessary to scold her at all, accusing of all mortal sins, to complain to friends and acquaintances as badly and unworthy it with you managed. You will only expose these yourself in very unattractive look. Well, will sympathize, will assent: "All women are bitches!" And to whom from it it will be better?
5. Having waited for some time that passions settled, under a specious excuse meet the ex-girlfriend and quietly discuss everything. In a conversation it is not necessary to look for guilty of a gap, to argue who the first was mistaken, arrived incorrectly. Instead assure the girl that you keep good memories of your novel, surely thank for the love and tenderness shown to you.
6. Will not prevent to add that, despite the termination of the love relations, you are ready to be her friend, and she can always count on your feasible support: council or help. And, certainly, it is necessary to keep the promise, as well as it befits the man. Here such behavior will be for certain appreciated by both the ex-girlfriend, and other people.