The relations between the man and the woman sometimes are tangled. Where feelings begin, the logic recedes. Even more difficulties arise when on the love stage not two, but three characters: he, she and … it. And very difficult happens to understand how to behave.
Instruction
1. Not everyone is capable of true love. Often there is a substitution of concepts when the habit or proprietary feelings in relation to the partner is accepted to love. The man – not the pet whom it is possible to close houses. He is a personality who has the right to decide how to him to arrive with whom to be to whom to have feelings. If you were not that whom he chose, for a start think and honestly answer yourself: whether really you love him? Or in you tells the hurt pride?
2. If you came to a conclusion that the egoism and offense forced to experience a storm of passions you or the man who escaped to another was only a valuable trophy in your personal hunting, recede. Choose to yourself other "production". If it seems to you that your feeling real, stop and think. Love – not only communication and sex with the elect. This also special attitude towards the person. The unconditional, pure love assumes that you will feel joy that your darling is happy. Even with another.
3. However too passive, easily receding from the purpose people risk not to wait for the happiness at all. You can try to play the competitor and to switch attention of the elect from her to yourself. Receptions in such fight, alas, are not romantic, and remind the plan of military operations more. The main thing - study the man, define what is not enough for it, and give it it. If it is necessary, artificially create conditions under which he will test disharmony.
4. Completely satisfied people meet seldom. Men in soul hope that there will be a woman capable to guess and satisfy their secret thirst. Also it is not about sex, it is not such great value. One man needs to hear assurances that he is clever, another waits for recognition of its force, is not enough for the third in life of risk and adventures. Satisfying and feeding secret passion of the man, you will make him dependent. Also very many are subject to such moral drug addiction very much.
5. Make acts which will excite him imagination. The more often the man thinks and remembers you, the more he gets used to your image, lets you in the world. Only refrain from eccentricity, not everyone understands it. Be not persuasive, but be in the public eye. From time to time disappear. Play (but do not play and do not change). You do not hurry the man with the choice and you do not press on it. Create such situation that it seemed to it that he independently made the decision to leave the former girlfriend and to begin the relations with you.