Some people after the beginning of the relations understand after a while that they have no feelings to the partner. The further behavior depends on many factors, having estimated which it is possible to decide how it is better to arrive in this situation.
Instruction
1. Stop to blame yourself. Some people have sense of guilt that the fact that they do not love the partner. Feelings sometimes pass, and yours before darling could change strongly for the worse. Therefore do not feel guilty, and accept it and think how it is better to arrive further.
2. Estimate the situation. If you meet the person whom you do not love, and you have no obligations before each other, it will be better to leave. But if you are connected by family bonds and the general child, it is absolutely other situation. Not only your life, but also life of the spouse and child depends on your decision.
3. Find the reasons because of which feelings passed. If earlier you loved this person, means you something in him attracted. Try to remember what changed that is not pleasant to you in your partner. Find a problem root to think over further actions.
4. Try to return feelings if there is an opportunity. Try to remember all pleasant moments which you spent together. Find lines which attract you in your partner, focus on them and try to fall in love anew.
5. Pretend that everything is still good if are not ready to leave this person. Be engaged in usual things, give nothing lack of feelings. If you are not weighed by these relations, and you are capable to be further together, try to remain near it.
6. Admit to the partner that you have no love feelings in relation to him any more. Discuss a problem and together try to find solutions. Address the family psychologist to solve a problem with the help of the expert.
7. If above-mentioned ways do not help, leave this person. The relations with a great effort will not bring you pleasure. You will torment yourself and the partner, over time relationship will worsen and consequences will be much worse. Honestly tell the former darling about the decision, explain the reason and you leave on search of new love.