Each person has the experience, pleasures and problems. And the Relations are unique too, there is no general recipe of happiness for all. But there are universal rules which will help you to change the course of events to the best.
Instruction
1. Think why there was a thought to lose someone. If there are real reasons for disorders, remember - it is impossible to change other person, kind of you did not want it. Whether you are ready to live further with jealousy and uncertainty? If it suits you - it is necessary only to recognize that you will be able to change nothing. Stop to worry and enjoy what you have.
2. If there are no actual reasons for experiences, but you worry - look for the reasons in yourself. - it is important to understand misunderstanding, jealousy, than these emotions as you can get rid of them are caused. The more you are afraid of someone to lose, the not more surely behave, and the risk of loss is higher. It seems to you that you have competitors? You seek to become stronger, cleverer and better. Behave so as if already you do not concede in anything to others. Finding self-confidence, you will quickly feel how the relation of the loved one changes.
3. Do not forget about the principle of "golden mean". If confidence outgrows in "it from me will not get to anywhere", it is the deadlock. You can force the person to be nearby, to compel, to press on pity, but it will be only temporary illusion. You remember: only your mutual and sincere feelings become the base of the reliable relations.
4. You learn to derive benefit from experience from the unpleasant moments too, analyze the events reasons. For example, during the quarrel you can formulate much quicker what is not pleasant to you, learn its reaction, will find specific problems, maybe, will grope solutions. As a result you will become better to understand each other. And having reconciled - you will rise by a new step of the relations.
5. Last, but very important step. Do not think of how to behave not to lose it. Think how to make that it always was with you. Keep and develop the relations, give them a new impulse and sharpness. Think more often of what you will be able to make for your joint future. What at you the general what interests connect you? Together with it speak about the future, about prospects of your relations, make plans, dream! Do not assume even a thought that you can lose it.