It is possible to face rudeness in any place. In public transport, in the market and in shop. And just on the street it is possible to meet people who owing to a lack of education are not able to express on another the emotions. Not to spend nerves for communication with such subjects, it is necessary to follow several rules.
Instruction
1. The best option is not to communicate with boors. If there is an opportunity, ignore such people, let all their attacks in your address will be left without answer. Pretend that you do not see them and you do not hear those roughnesses which they utter.
2. If you do not manage to avoid communication with the boor, behave it is unpredictable. Such people, as a rule, want to achieve response - to discompose you, to anger and provoke to rough statements. They wait that you began to justify youselves or speak. Do not give them such chance, smile broadly or tell a compliment. At such turn of events the stream of negative emotions at the offender will run low, he will become puzzled and will become silent.
3. Never get up on one step with the one who tries to get nasty with you. You keep always expressly politely and correctly. Communicate with such people strictly on "you", use official formulations, gestures and intonation. Do not allow statements concerning personal qualities of such person. It is unknown, than to come to an end your meeting, your conduct has to be irreproachable. Do not use household threats to the person who is rude to you if from his party the physical abuse - not he follows, but you will be right.
4. It is possible to struggle with boors by means of sense of humour. If you were offended concerning your appearance, state in reply even more ridiculous phrase concerning the figure, a shape of ears or something another. Seize conversation initiative in the hands and let know to the person that your sense of humour is more developed. It is possible to use phrases which will bring the ill-mannered person into the deadlock: "Your manners are worthy admiration", "I admire your wisdom", "Your manner delights me". Such words will make him silent, he not only is not able to use them, but also most likely - did not even hear similar expressions.
5. If it happened so that you were offended, and you could not prevent it - at all do not worry about it. Sometimes it happens so that someone's rough statement in your address can spoil mood for the whole day. Mentally tell yourself that this incident does not cost your attention. Or present this situation repeatedly and in thoughts put the offender in a humorous and awkward position. Your mood has to improve, and the offense and irritation - to disappear.