How to behave with offended

How to behave with offended

The even sincerely loving, careful woman can, without wishing that, to offend the darling. Was tired at work, feeling sick, mood worse than ever. Here also break from word lips about which she is sorry then. As a result the man is offended, sometimes very strongly. How should the woman that he ceased to take offense behave?

Instruction

1. The most natural option is to apologize to darling. Ask forgiveness, assure him: you did not want to offend at all, just did not control yourself. Here it is possible and to have a little cry at it on a shoulder, complaining and listing: at work loaded excessively, the captious customer exhausted all soul, the chief unfairly carped. In most cases the man himself then hurries to console the offender, assuring that he already forgot everything and not in a claim.

2. If there is no wish to apologize, it is possible to work more thinly, in a roundabout way, with truly women's art and cunning (in good sense of the word). Accept the guilty shamed look like "humility", admit well dosed tear in a voice. The man without words will understand that you regret, regret for the incident.

3. The sign language and bodies is old as the world. Gently cling to the offended man, stroke him on the head, be rubbed by a cheek about a cheek, embrace, kiss, whispering tender words. Seldom what man will resist such "apology".

4. In some cases some theatricality, silliness will not prevent (certainly if the caused offense is not too strong). Prayerfully the broken hands, the deliberate and scared look, the question asked by the shivering voice: "Will you never reconcile now with me?" - and already the man who just discontentedly snuffled, frowning, it is ready to burst out laughing cheerfully.

5. Perhaps, the most serious mistake which the woman in such situation can allow, – at all to do nothing. Like, nothing terrible, will suffer, and in general, "on offended water carry". Yes, there are such women who are for some reason sincerely sure that they have the right to take offense only they. And men, if belong to the stronger sex, have to take out their emotions and differences of character with stoical patience.

6. What can be told about it? Such behavior does not do credit to the woman. And it is not necessary neither to be surprised to it, nor to be indignant if to stop loving it. Only she will be guilty of it.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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