Problems in relationship of fathers and children are old as the world. Movies and books, telecasts and publications in newspapers are devoted to this subject. But always, when the child begins to feel as the certain special personality, changes in the relations with parents begin. Each family needs to look for the way, to grope the right paths not to bring each other to stresses and depressions.
Instruction
1. A lot of things in relationship of the matured children with the parents depend on more skilled senior family members. They in the childhood have to put the valid and kind attitude towards mother and the father in the child. And they have to be able to control the behavior. It is impossible to criticize acts of children constantly.
2. If parents condemn all your actions, try to explain them the point of view. Of course, mother with the father has for you a mass of councils and recommendations which they consider only true. Try to state quietly and logically the concept of your view of the world. Nothing if it causes a wave of objections and reproaches. Discuss, talk, prove that you are able to think and act.
3. You learn to be responsible for the acts. Quite often you will be mistaken, the destiny will spread out much grabel on your course of life. But the ability to understand the misses and to draw right conclusions is an ability of the adult mature person. If it turned out so that your parents were right, ask for them forgiveness for mistrust to their words.
4. Be not afraid of disputes and discussions, the truth can be born in them! Assert the right to be an independent personality. For this purpose you have to make the considered and reasonable acts, think of the future.
5. You ask for suggestions parents more often if you find it difficult to make the decision. It will be very pleasant to them that their matured child appreciates their opinion. Always the first go for reconciliation if there was a conflict, having hidden in the corner, only small children pout.
6. Try not to forget to report to parents about events in the life if you live separately. Pay them more attention, inquire after about health and offer the help. You remember holidays of mother and father, congratulate them and you give useful gifts. Bringing up the child, consider your experience in communication with parents.