From four types of temperament the choleric person – the brightest, passionate and quick-tempered. It is characterized also by self-confidence, the imperious speech, active gesticulation, frequent change of moods. To win its attention and respect, it is necessary to choose certain tactics of behavior.
Instruction
1. During friendly or business chat you speak rather loudly and accurately. Choleric persons dislike those who mumble, and can offend them rough notes. If you have a muffled and silent speech, work over yourself, do exercises for a voice, for example, a free minute repeat tongue twisters or sing, without swallowing a word. Well put speech will help not only to find a common language with the choleric person, but also to gain self-confidence.
2. People of bright temperament are more inclined to narcissism. They seek to be the focus of attention and also do not turn a deaf ear of any compliment. You do not flatter choleric persons, and pronounce a sincere praise or just gratitude safely, openly and honestly.
3. They do not take out criticism at all and sometimes can even take an innocent joke personally. If something does not suit you, try to give accurate and weighty arguments. Do not increase tone – only the choleric person is capable to outvoice the choleric person. Never accuse him of all misses, otherwise instead of a constructive conversation there will be a scandal with a ware beating. For one conversation choose only one controversial issue. Begin with a praise, and finish with gratitude for constructive dialogue.
4. Be not sluggish and do not demand routine performance of duties from it. Better once again invite the choleric person in theater or to a concert with the subsequent discussion. People of this type of temperament very much love creativity. During the joint travel do not stop it if he wishes to climb on a mountain boulder or to go to a safari. But be near: if the choleric person meets difficulties, you should take some actions until he is indignant and swing hands.
5. The choleric person – the leader who is irreplaceable in business, but is very categorical in family life. He badly differentiates business and family space, likes to dispose. If something does not suit it, ask to show you as it is better to make any given: to conduct a car, to cut salad, to change clothes of the kid, to play with a cat, to kiss, etc. Having been prone to vanity, the choleric person will quickly begin to enjoy, you just recognized his originality and a highlight.