There is a set of jokes about the mother-in-law, but it is not enough – about the mother-in-law. Some daughters-in-law say that the mother-in-law – it simply is not ridiculous. However the wise woman can correctly learn to behave with the wife of the son and even to fall in love with her. And then she will be able to call herself the good mother-in-law rightfully.
Instruction
1. Do not interfere with the relations between daughter-in-law and son even if it seems to you that you know better how to them to build family. Provide young people to yourself: they will understand the problems. In certain cases, if the daughter-in-law asks, it is possible to help her. However explain that you will not do it every time: young people have to study, without asking parents for the help constantly.
2. Talk to the daughter-in-law quietly, do not allow a didactic tone, morals, do not try to show the superiority. Talk friendly and kindly, smile. The daughter-in-law for certain otzerkalit your behavior and will try to please you.
3. Trust the choice of the son and do not reproach the daughter-in-law for the fact that she is unworthy your boy. The spouse fell in love with her, and it means that in it there are many attractive lines. Do not consider her the bad wife only because it does not correspond to your ideal of the daughter-in-law. If the woman is not pleasant to you, at least try to behave with her politely and quietly.
4. Do not think as if the daughter-in-law takes away from you attention and love of the son and the more so do not accuse her of it. The love for the wife and love for mother are absolutely different things. Do not insist that young people often visited you and you do not come to them on a visit every day, the young family can have affairs.
5. Do not give to the daughter-in-law advice of an intimate nature and you never come into the room of young people without demand. Nevertheless, if the son's wife herself asks you for suggestions, you can give him. Remember that she just studies, and you can help the wisdom when it is necessary.
6. If you live together with the daughter-in-law, quietly react to how she conducts economy. It is not necessary to teach the girl to prepare, to remove, erase, etc. if she does not ask about it. If you see that the daughter-in-law tries to help you about the house – do not reject her help even if it seems to you that the young woman does everything incorrectly. Be patient.