Life with the egoist can become a nightmare for this purpose whom he will manage to bend under himself. As a rule, already from small age capricious children like to order parents. And those make a helpless gesture and refuse to understand that their connivance to whimsical fumes became the reason. Whether it is possible to change selfish character?
Instruction
1. To re-educate the adult egoist at you it will hardly turn out if you got used to be in his shadow and to occupy the lower step of a podium. From time to time switch its attention to yourself. For example, next time, when it will be let in the long story about own sorrows, too begin to complain over the broken heel or complain of an unpleasant conversation with colleagues. If he begins to interrupt, just continue to speak. Your task: to show that it on an equal basis with you, to displace focus on itself.
2. Firmly and without excess lyrical digressions explain to the egoist that he behaves disrespectfully in relation to you. Reason arguments with concrete examples. If you reproach him with what he and words does not allow to tell, ask it to remember what you spoke at breakfast about. Conduct a conversation in a constructive manner, do not attack it with shouts or insults. Do not make scandal at all, otherwise it will enter you in own "black list" not estimated it the thin sincere organization.
3. If he does not care for you and literally forces to stand constantly at a plate and to amuse his gastronomic vanity, then next time when you, say, are late at work, warn him that you will come home hungry. Then just quietly ask it to make to you a dinner. It is not necessary to beg or take a position of the victim. One "please" will be quite enough. It will help it though for some time to put itself on your place. Some egoists need to grant option, for example, ask it to prepare a garnish or to order food in the delivery service.
4. Thoughts that he behaves incorrectly will lead him to change of behavior not at once. Give to the egoist time. Perhaps, soon he also will overestimate a situation and will pay you more attention. The main thing, you do not speak about its narcissism every day. Be engaged in own appearance better and learn to dispose free time. Remember healthy love for yourself and own interests, requirements and desires.