Each person perceives break in relations in own way: someone with relief, and for someone is very big blow. And after that all differently: someone drops out of sight, others pursue darling, already former spouse.
Instruction
1. If a talk about parting is not perceived by your partner seriously, and he all the same continues to call, write persistently you messages and to meet after work, at the same time begs, threatens, blackmails, asks, appeals to conscience, etc., all the same try to behave and do not offend it. You only aggravate a situation, and the former lover will continue to try to obtain your arrangement.
2. Persecutors are different. There are such who want to renew not so much the relations how many to prove to themselves that they can achieve everything. These people are ready to return the beloved at any cost. If your former lover is among pathological persecutors, avoid communication with it better and just you pass by at casual meetings. Do not recede from the positions and all the behavior show it that between you there is nothing any more and cannot be.
3. If you have mutual friends, avoid any talk and mentions of former at their presence. Also do not post provocative information in social networks. Otherwise he learns about your thoughts and will try to meet you.
4. There is a certain number of men who in the childhood received less maternal love and care. Such ex-lovers follow on heels, are kneeling and even threaten with suicide if the relations do not manage to be renewed. And though you feel pity in relation to it, do not allow your weaknesses to be shown: he perceives you only as the tool for experience of children's memoirs. Do not give in on its entreaties at all and you remember that in this case the problem consists not in you, and in its personal psychological features.
5. The type "maniacs" also occurs among men. Such psychopathic persons categorically do not accept refusals. From them it is possible to wait for anything. They are capable even of a criminal act. You keep at with such boyfriend, behave with him extremely carefully. If he threatens you, ask in law enforcement agencies for the help.