How to behave with the offended woman

How to behave with the offended woman

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Many women – natures sensitive and vulnerable. Even the trifle or a blurt told by darling is capable to upset some girls. About female offense the set of baizes and jokes goes, however men mumpish female cheeks and tear-stained eyes are capable to nonplus.

The most reasonable decision in a situation when the woman took offense – to approach and ask in what the reason. At the same time do not pretend that you ask only from decency or you indulge unreasonable female whims. Be attentive and sympathizing. It is quite possible that you really made a mistake: forgot about another anniversary of your first appointment, the third day you cannot beat the fallen-down shelf, though promised, or ignored a call of your half which wanted to complain that the chief unfairly abused her. Learn in what the offense reason, and whenever possible immediately improve – beat the ill-fated shelf, take the lady to cafe to celebrate anniversary, kiss her and tell that it the great expert.

It is far more difficult to understand how to behave when the girl does not say in what business, and continues to pout. Perhaps, she does not want to retell the conflict which took place at work, she swore because of nonsense with the casual fellow traveler in the subway or just badly feels that forces it to be angry for the whole world. If at once did not occur to you what you can be guilty of, stop puzzling, and just embrace the girl and kiss her on a cheek. If you suspect that the reason is after all in you, you can ask for it forgiveness just in case.

Sometimes people need time for calming down, ceasing to take offense, put feelings in order and at last to recover. If a talk and embraces do not affect the woman, give her time to stay alone with themselves. Tell that you will be able to talk as soon as that it wants her, close a door to the room and allow it to burst out crying or with all the heart to beat a pillow alone. During this time you can make tea and run to shop behind something tasty that will be able to please the young lady. But do not leave the woman for a long time, otherwise she can consider that you threw it.

Women sometimes can take offense because of real trifles. However, if the relations with this woman are expensive to you, do not deride her state, do not convince that she pouts because of nonsenses, do not slam the door and do not suggest to meet later when the girl has a good mood. If you act this way, there is a chance that the lady will not want to see you any more.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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