You were together. To you it was good. But the moment when everything cooled down came, passed. Or other person who strongly lodged in heart met and applies for stay lifelong there … What to do with those relations which are not necessary any more, but are not finished yet? What shall I do? The second party still has feelings, is still attached to you. How to break this link?
1. How it was a pity for the person, but the relations cannot be continued. All the same sooner or later it will lead to a gap, but even more painful. It is necessary to talk surely personally to the person (SMS and email – not option). It is important to begin a conversation with that good that between you was, with the fact that gave you these relations.
2. The following step - the most bitter and difficult. Carefully think over it. As a rule, best of all such words are perceived: "I feel that our relations sputtered out, feelings cooled down, and each of us needs to look for the happiness in other direction. Yes, at first we will miss, but it is a habit, and it will pass soon. I well know you, you well know me, and it would be pleasant to me to see in you the good friend. I think, we could be friends, truly?".
3. Of course, these words will not bring joy to the person, but will help to alleviate his pain from break in relations. It can react differently, but from your party is done everything possible to sugar the pill. Always there is a big temptation simply to tell: "I love another, you are not necessary", but it can put a trauma to the person for the rest of life. Therefore think of feelings of the partner, even former, and you spare them.