How to bring up the grandson

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Quite often grandfathers and grandmothers seek to give a practical advice or offer the help, considering that all know about education of children. At best parents listen or ignore similar care, in the worst - everything comes to an end with the conflict. It is better not to argue on education methods, and to give to grandsons what their mothers and fathers are not able to afford.

Instruction

1. Be engaged in cultural education of the child. It is unlikely parents will have time for visit of various exhibitions and theaters. Only try not to impose to the grandson own addictions. If you love the opera, it does not mean at all that the child will treat it with the same delight. If the grandson owing to age cannot make, in your opinion, a right choice, then look narrowly at its interests. If he likes to draw, then the Tretyakov gallery for certain will please him. And there most likely it will be boring for the fan of soccer and active games. However, it does not mean at all that to such child it is not allowed to get acquainted with art. Just postpone this action until when the child consciously wants to broaden the horizons.

2. Undertake moral education of the grandson. Try to clearly demonstrate to it, it is how important to be kind, fair and merciful. Impart to it love for animals, the nature and purity of the city. Purchase of a pet, in common planted tree, arrangement of a garden near the house can help with it to you. That you did not try to show to the child, try not to force him to some occupations. It is fraught that you for a long time will lose arrangement of the child and he will cease to listen to you.

3. Kind of uneducationally it did not sound, but... indulge the grandson. Usually parents try do not allow the child superfluous not to spoil him, but small derogation from rules is necessary sometimes for each person. Try not to go too far, but you have full authority to concede in trifles. Keep in mind that the similar behavior is appropriate only in those moments which are not basic for parents. And it is even better if you give to the child what parents are not able to afford. It concerns not only material aspect of life, but also, for example, an unplanned trip to giving.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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