It is necessary to work on the relations with close people. Keep in mind that a lot of things depend on your behavior. Try to make a home atmosphere confidential, cheerful and quiet.
Instruction
1. Remember that the relations between you and people close to you are under construction on love, understanding and respect. Do not hide the emotions, express warm feelings to the house. Show how they are expensive to you. Members of your family have to feel your love, tenderness and care. The family needs to pay compliments and pleasant words. Show respect in relation to people with whom you live. Show that their outlook is close to you. They have to feel that you understand them and accept.
2. You give to dear, beloved people the attention. Ask, how was your day members of your family. Be able to listen to each of relatives. Choosing a gift for the native person, consider his tastes and wishes. Show as far as to you your favourite people are interesting, not indifferent. Believe, your relations will move to absolutely other level if you begin to treat the family with the same attention as friends, clients or business partners. Do not assume that there was no your sincere force left for the most important people in your life.
3. Give support to those who near you. You remember, you are one family. A hard minute your participation is especially demanded. Find proper words, be near the family if there was a trouble. Make everything depending on you to help to correct a situation. Your affairs it should not be more important if you are necessary to the family.
4. Be open and honest with the family. Let in your relations there will be a trust. If you carry on straight, warm, heart-to-heart talk, it is simply excellent. But when someone from family members cannot reveal before you up to the end, you should not press on it and to extort something. Especially it concerns men. The gentle gesture and the understanding look are enough to remain close people.
5. Refrain from sharp criticism to relatives. Protect their feelings. If something is not pleasant to you in behavior, acts of the member of your family, softly explain what, in your opinion, the person does not so. Offer the action plan, only do it unostentatiously. Try to accept the choice of your family. You remember, they are free to choose the course of life, respect their point of view.
6. Be patient. The family can sometimes be whimsical and capricious. It not always depends on character. Sometimes the disease, fatigue or bad mood changes the person. When one of members of your family is in such state, it is not necessary to clash with it. If you cannot help it, leave the person alone.
7. Strengthen your relations. You spend more time with the family. Enter family traditions, they very well influence spirit of your family. Try to celebrate holidays with relatives, organize picnics, family lunches, campaigns, games, performances or still some actions. The main thing that everything it was interesting and cheerful.