Acquaintance, flirtation, courtings, the relations – the classical scheme of succession of events between young men and the girl nice each other. If the subjugator of heart already has a guy, then the relations will be under construction in other sequence: acquaintance, friendship, courtings, sympathy … And the result will depend only on your efforts, charm, cunning and persistence.
Instruction
1. For certain to achieve success, possess information. Inquire about the rival to make idea of what family of men she prefers. Its shortcomings are your "trumps". Is late at work, zhadnovat, does not love children/nature/theatre or scornfully treats the second half? What it was if this line is not pleasant to your darling in her guy, knowledge of it can help you. At least the fact that you will definitely not repeat annoying misses of the rival in relation to the girlfriend.
2. Try to approach the ladylove. Study her preferences - musical, art, literary, its hobbies, visit those institutions and places where she likes to spend time. Sincerely become interested in its favourite things or occupations, it definitely will give you the chance to support easy communication and to be pleasant to it, finding similarity of your views. The ideal acquaintance applying for development of the relations just has to happen in that place where the girl is not accompanied by the guy where she is most relaxed, feels comfortable and is keen on favourite business. For example, gym, beauty shop, boutique, library, Internet cafe, etc.
3. Win her friendship. If you learn to listen, but not to dominate and not to dictate the opinion, your chances many times will increase. With the tactful, interesting, amusing friend she will reveal, will trust and to appreciate such Platonic communication sincerely. Remain for it in an access zone that any minute it could contact you, ask the help, hear council or just talk. "Having accustomed" the girlfriend to the society, you practically approached the purpose.
4. Instead of establishment of friendship after acquaintance it is possible to pass to "attack" at once. Shower it with messages with declarations of love and passion. Be graceful, interesting, sure of themselves, show persistence and ingenuity. For example, daily send with the courier candies/flowers on a workplace or home. You give tickets for concerts, performances, you present jewelry (for what there will be enough prosperity) or pleasant surprises with a hint on your feelings. If the darling responds to messages, accepts gifts, treats you favourably - fortress is almost won.
5. When the girl finds confidence or in your sincere Platonic friendship, or in your eternal and passionate love, time to drop out of sight came. Create visibility of the absence. Having remained unaddressed and strong support, the young young lady will be discouraged by such unexpected turn and will begin to think of you much more often than it would be desirable that.
6. It was necessary to take the last step. Attentively watch its reaction to the modest return. Reproaches, joy, chatter, nervousness, kisses will indicate that the lady is finally won. If you in her eyes read indifference and indifference – alas, it was not succeeded "to win" against love for another.