The relations with relatives are always difficult and comprise a set of offenses and half-words. How to get rid of negative emotions, to cease to give in to negative thoughts and to find mutual understanding with parents? It can be carried out only constantly working on itself.
Family relationship – it is always difficult. Disagreements between generations existed always. Parents brought up us the same as it was done by their parents, they took out this model from the family.
The conflicts between close people often arise for the reason that they are similar among themselves. It concerns not only physical aspects, but features of character. If you take offense at one of parents or at once at both, for any reason, then think, perhaps, this shortcoming is inherent also in you.
The offense is such feeling which corrodes soul and a body. Think why you need to scroll constantly in the head same negative "chewing gum". The person to whom you have this feeling all the same does not know that he happens at you in soul. There is a waste of vital time which could be spent for creation something valuable.
The offense is one of the main factors of developing of such horrible disease as cancer. It collects in an organism over time, gradually undermining health. To get rid of offense at parents, the following is necessary:
- Visit the psychologist, he will help to look at a situation on the other hand and to leave the state which is eternally offended.
- Talk to parents, try to understand them, such talk is difficult and unpleasant, but is necessary. Try to understand your parents and to inform them of the point of view, not a skatyvayta before reproaches and mutual insults.
- Be engaged in auto-training. To eradicate offenses and to cease to perceive so sharply the relations with close relatives, full-time internal employment over itself is necessary. In this case, prayers, auto-training well will help.
The problem will not be resolved by itself, especially, if lasts still since childhood that to get rid of it, time, desire and work on itself are necessary.