You are not considered for a long time as couple whose relations only begin. Not the first year you is proud you carry ranks of the husband and the wife. It would seem, people dearest each other have to have ideal relations. However it is difficult not to notice that recently you began to quarrel too often and you do not know how to return former romanticism or at least tranquility to your family.
It is required to you
- - album or notebook,
- - handle.
Instruction
1. Talk to the soulmate. Desire to improve the relations has to be both at you, and at your husband. Mutual desire to make your family is stronger - it is already a half of the passable way. Discuss why occurred so that quarrels between you became nearly daily ritual. State each other the existing claims, maybe, the problem actually lies on a surface, just both of you persistently tried not to notice it till this day.
2. Get an album or a notebook in which you will write down the claims from now on. Allocate for such album the certain place in the house and accustom themselves not to express to the person the discontent at once, and at first to write down it. It was not pleasant that the husband scattered socks again? Write down it. Someone did not close a tube with toothpaste? Let and it will find the place in an album of claims. As practice shows, often our rage on not too big offenses passes already through a couple of minutes. But as we hurry to speak, sometimes the insignificant problem develops into huge scandal, and it becomes even more difficult to come to understanding and to reconcile.
3. Analyze your last quarrels. Pay attention to what is the reason of your disputes more often. Perhaps, it is some certain person or some situation. Try to save the life from this source as nothing can be more important than family, and peaceful co-existence – one of the main conditions in order that the relations became stronger every day.
4. The most important – understand that life does not cost to spend it for quarrels. Being in a condition of the next dissonance, think on what pleasant things you could spend this time instead of sitting on different corners and to take offense at each other. Never forget that our life will not proceed eternally, and you should not spend it for quarrels most of which often have under themselves no sufficient reasons.