The love is the fine feeling bringing a set of positive emotions. But only halves in love have similar feelings. For the same who is in search expectation can be very painful and even driving to despair. Not to rush to extremes and to be exempted from not always iridescent thoughts, it is necessary to cease to wait for love. To understand that heart itself will choose the one who is lovely to it.
Instruction
1. You treat everything more simply. It is not necessary to torment itself with a thought of loneliness constantly. Spending time for useless lamentations, you risk to miss the real feeling. The person who is busy only with the experiences can not notice that nearby there was someone, noteworthy. Just learn to look at life positively. Meet friends, attend parties and other actions. And, perhaps, desire will be granted unexpectedly. You can get acquainted with well-loved (darling) accidentally, for example, being visiting. Similar combination of circumstances - not a rarity. The main thing not to despair due to the lack of love.
2. Find to yourself hobby. Pastime can be the most various: read books, draw pictures, sew, embroider, collect models, cook various dishes, hunt, fish, etc. If you love the work, then and it will become a quite good hobby. The activity will give the chance to send energy to the useful course, but not to be obsessed with problems. Really keen people usually think only of "passion". At such state of affairs, about love it is possible to forget at all. But it is better after all about feelings sometimes to remember. They do life by the bright and sated raznobrazny emotions.
3. Reconsider the ideals. A time of people can feel lonely, but till the old age will wait for the prince (princess). Unfortunately, people are not perfect. All have any shortcomings. It is necessary to reconcile to this fact. Unreasonable requirements it is possible to scare away not only those who to you are nice, but also all people around. And having it is possible that forgotten about the overestimated inquiries, you will meet that with whom it will be just good together.
4. Be not afraid to make mistakes. It does not mean that it is necessary to fall into arms of the first comer of the person. But sometimes it is possible to learn the real feeling, only having a bad experience. Besides, it will help with the future to make thrifty use of the soulmate more.