Parting with the guy is capable to knock down strongly life even of the positive girl. But it is not necessary to despond: life goes on, and it is important to heal as soon as possible spiritual wounds and to go towards to all new and interesting.
1. Try to think of your former as little as possible. If the end, everything that happened to you earlier is really put to the relations, it is possible to consider the passable stage of your life. Get rid of its photos, things, be convinced that it cannot call or write to you. Even if the guy not against to remain your friend, any time alone with itself is important to stay to allow your feelings to cool down, and to offenses – to leave. Also in such time it is better to rely on the friends, they will be able to help you to forget about a grief and will set on the right path.
2. If you are infinitely tormented by memories of the left love, the reason of it is, most likely, in the shortage of new feelings and impressions. Find to yourself new hobby to which you will be given entirely. For example, register in sports section, start going to campaigns, be engaged in rock-climbing or swimming with an aqualung. Perhaps, it will be better if your hobby is unusual and fascinating. Perhaps, you will even get acquainted with congenial people. So you will quickly leave behind all the experiences and will begin to change life to the best.
3. Set any long-term goal for yourself and start its achievement. For example, try to graduate from the institute with the diploma with honors or achieve increase at work. So you will be able easily to switch attention from personal problems to the current and future life situation.
4. Try to get acquainted with somebody else and try to find really suitable candidate for a role of your soulmate. Take all mistakes made earlier into account and try to avoid them further. If it is necessary, change the character and improve appearance, get rid of complexes. It is necessary that you entered new life changed and ready to new fulfillments. So you will be able to achieve the true progress both on the personal front, and in other spheres.