Relationship – a difficult and many-sided thing and if you want harmony in relationship, it is necessary to accept the partner it what he is actually. But it does not mean at all that you do not need to change and to gradually change each other in interaction and exchange of experience. If you do not accept any habits of the passion, you can promote that your man changed.
Instruction
1. The main thing that you need to remember in "re-education" of the man – you do not press on it. Do not blame and do not row concerning any given its acts. The best way to change the person is to encourage it and to praise as it motivates on to be pleasant. If you condemn and reproach endlessly the man, he will have no desire to change.
2. You thank him even for trifles – for example, for the fact that it took out garbage in time or went to shop, pay attention to his merits, to those habits which are pleasant to you. The man will feel better and more nobly, and auto-suggestion will help it to change.
3. Also you can quietly talk to the man and suggest it to work over some shortcomings, having in exchange promised to work over the. Such mutual understanding and sincere recognition of the mistakes often yields good results. The man has to see that you as well as he, are ready to work on own improvement – looking at you, he will try to do the same.
4. Be tender and patient, do not lose sense of humour. It will help not to belong to the man's punctures too seriously, and at the same time will effectively work on their correction.
5. If you ask the man to make something in what he does not see sense – for example, to remove things in a case – do it so that the request sounded as the offer, but not as the order. The man has to understand that he will make it not because you so want but because in it there is a sense and it, thereby, will improve a house situation.
6. The keyword in your relations is an arrangement. Agree with each other – it will help to live in harmony and love, without facing household disorders.