One of the most difficult things for the woman - to learn the correct communication with the husband. To learn to be silent when it is demanded by a situation and to tell the correct words, when necessary. To treat the husband and to build up the correct, happy relationship very not easy. However, even the most complex problems in the relations will be dissolved without trace when the woman to learn to do only two things.
The first that needs to be made is to learn to accept the husband. With all its shortcomings and behavior wrong (only in your opinion). The second is to learn to concentrate on high qualities of the husband. ""But how to make it? Same it is incredibly difficult! I know what it is good! But all the same sometimes I behave with it incorrectly..."" - you will think.
There are three simple exercises which actually are magic. The correct communication cannot learn, it can change. As soon as you internally change the attitude towards the person then, automatically the person begins to treat you better. And, it can be not only your husband, and mother, the girlfriend or anyone! Your behavior and communication after such practice will become perfect another, correct, qualitative!
So, take the sheet of paper and the handle. On one party write all negative qualities of the husband, write what in him irritates you. Look at this list and try to accept all these things. As soon as you accept them, changes will already begin! You do not throw out the list, next time, when there is a conflict, you will be able to understand that what line you did not accept, and will be able to work it in yourself once again.
Now on other leaf write merits of the husband. Attention! 4 positive have to fall on each negative quality. It can be some noble acts made by your husband and just his positive lines! Look at this list, admit to yourself that your husband just golden person, be convinced as he you likes and to care for you! Now even in a critical situation, you surely remember this obligation and thanks, love for yours the husband. Also you will manage to behave correctly.
And last, very pleasant exercise. Create ""the Diary of Love"" to your husband. Write there daily all trifles which he made for you and your family. It can be the insignificant help in the house, the shown attention, compliments told casually and everything the things bringing you joy which are made by your husband. It is the diary - the confidential base on which there are strong love family relations! This positive practice is capable to create a real miracle! Look and write to the Diary constantly and let your relations blossom, become more confidential and stronger!