The inclination, love, obsession, love at first sight have very similar signs. However it is just difficult to define the main difference at first sight because it is hidden deeply inside. This feeling at the level of subconsciousness, it is born in the soul and any more never leaves. To realize that occurs, a lot of time is necessary, the love is slow. A number of questions which it is necessary to answer himself will help to understand what stands behind insuperable thirst for a certain person.
Instruction
1. What interest in the partner is based on. The sexual background, appearance or any talents is those qualities which attract at the beginning. The real feeling is based on deep respect, attachment, concentration, on inner world of the loved one. Pay attention whether it is interesting to you to know about its troubles and victories. You rejoice or long with it together. How strongly the appearance influences your attitude towards him. If it is love, then most likely you, of course, will notice that something not so, but it will not play a crucial role. We see darlings "internal" sight therefore they for us always the most beautiful and desired.
2. Feeling of property. It is known that freedom is more important than love for any person. If you love the person really, you are capable to give him this freedom, to release if demand a circumstance and not to wait for anything in exchange. Think whether you are ready to limit personal space for the sake of wellbeing of other person and to respect the made decisions, without introducing the amendments. If he decides to leave, you will hate or let go in peace? Whether take you for granted the fact that he cannot reciprocate your feelings fully? When the answer to all questions affirmative, do not doubt - it is love.
3. Manifestations of feelings. Usually to speak about something real extremely hard. If you with ease pronounce words: "I love you", and then with the same ease can offend the person, know, it is not love, it is obsession, passion. As do not call, but to pure and pure feeling of this emotion very much and very far. The love dooms to dumbness. Very often externally it is similar to indifference. There is it from the fact that the loving people place emphasis more on feelings of another, than on own.