Did you decide that you reached already sufficient level of self-realization, and now want the cordial family relations and a home, but do not know in what parameters itself should choose the husband?
Instruction
1. Draw the close attention to family of the potential groom. The fact is that the man at the subconscious level will always try to construct family just like that that was at his parents. If in his family it is considered normal to hit the wife, then such man will make something similar sooner or later. Certainly, it happens so that, for example, in family of the drinking parents the child with sharp hostility to alcohol grows up. But such hostility can affect also the attitude towards you. Therefore always pay attention to what relations are accepted at it in family.
2. Find out as far as the man is jealous. Certainly, it is pleasant to each woman that the man can be jealous of her from time to time, means, he very much values it. But constant paranoid prosecutions, espionage, jealousy attacks not in the best way affect family life.
3. Do not choose full contrast to. Certainly, contrasts are attracted. Because to recognize the person not similar to you – process extremely fascinating. The person is interesting to you because he opens for you something, to you unknown hitherto. However once you surely will understand that you look with this person in different directions and to you it is simple there is nothing to talk.
4. Stop to believe in mismatches. Certainly, there are such unions in which the husband is fantastically rich, and the wife was taken from a dysfunctional family, or to the husband for seventy, and to the wife twenty and they are quite happy. But realize that these cases are single. Choose to yourself the satellite from the circle because in case you grew up in the different environment if you have a different education level and outlooks on life, you just will not find a common ground in very many questions.
5. Do not estimate the man only on appearance. Certainly, the woman at the subconscious level reaches for an image of such macho, strong, stately, beautiful, broad-shouldered. But think also of how such macho will raise your children. Whether he will be able to become the good husband? And good father?
6. Try to avoid weak-willed and flabby men. Certainly, you should not go into extremes and to choose to yourself in satellites the man who by means of a fist is ready to establish the orders in the house. But the person who are easy for manipulating is unambiguously not necessary to you. Not only you will be able to manipulate him, and any who will have such requirement.
7. Do not forget that on light there is also a love. Perhaps, your man is not ideal, but if you have real pure strong feelings, it is possible and to close eyes to some things.