Communication on social networks considerably differs from communication usual. We cannot include a mimicry, gestures, emotions in process that impoverishes our opportunities. At communication on social networks it is extremely important to follow some rules and ethics that will allow not to spend time in vain, achieving the necessary result.
Most of modern people is registered on social networks. The most widespread social networks – "Schoolmates" and VKontakte. Daily millions of users visit the pages to learn news, to communicate with each other. Communication on social networks differs from usual communication a little. There are certain rules and restrictions. Moreover, it is necessary to observe ethics, to show respect for the interlocutor.
Differences from usual communication
Several points explaining are given below in what difference of communication on social networks from communication usual: - expectation. If at an ordinary conversation you on the question wait for the instant answer, then on social networks it is possible to wait several hours, and even days. Banal questions: "How are you doing?", "You where now?", "As passed examination?" and others, can wait for the answer very long. Of course, both "Schoolmates" and VKontakte provide an opportunity to communicate through chats, but all the same waiting time is very big. One of interlocutors can depart from the personal computer, there will be a blackout or the Internet "will take off"; - uncertainty. When on our question there is no answer, we can guess for hours why so occurs. For example, you wrote to the pleasant girl that she beautiful, however she is silent. Perhaps, she took offense, and can just departed from the computer – you cannot precisely know. It is necessary to guess; - fullness sense. When we communicate through the social networks which are not able to convey all meaning of the transmitted data as we have no opportunity to show the emotions a mimicry, gestures, intonation. Communication by usual words and smilies considerably is impoverished by our opportunities; - empathy, empathy. At direct communication we see, the interlocutor is ready to talk to us or not. On social networks we communicate with the imagined phantom, representing the interlocutor it what to us favourably at present time. Of course, it is possible to use a video call, but not all resort to it and it is not so frequent.
What should I do?
Considering all aforesaid, it is possible to tell with confidence that you should not show persistence, communicating on social networks. If did not answer you immediately, stop trying to contact the interlocutor again. Can quite be, he is busy or just does not want to communicate time at present. Try to formulate accurately thoughts, to write what you want to report, using smilies and the sign of exclamation. Be not upset if did not receive the answer to the question at once. We are living people and we not always sit in front of the computer, expecting when to us the next message comes.
As it is correct to communicate on social networks
There are several general rules, following which, it is possible to derive benefit from communication in "Schoolmates" and VKontakte: - do not use hackneyed phrases. For example: "How are you doing?", "What are you doing?", "Hi". The use of similar phrases says that you will be long shaken before you begin a normal conversation if at all you will begin. Of course, it is necessary to greet, but right after a greeting it is necessary to ask a specific question, or to share interesting information. In that case it is possible to expect the answer; - if you want communication to happen in the form of dialogue, not only read messages, but also ask questions, express the opinion; - if the interlocutor answers your questions shortly "no" or "yes", ask him a difficult question which it is necessary to answer with the offer. At continuation of the same communication, without capacious explanations from its party, stop dialogue as the second party is not interested in it; - do not immerse the interlocutor in the problems at all. It is not pleasant to you when you are loaded, here and arrive in relation to others in this way; - do not offend the interlocutor rough words. In general, try not to use bad words, do not express in a negative way. It will quickly lead to loss of interest in you as to the interlocutor.