Friends bring joy, interest and a variety in life. However not any friendship lasts infinitely. Not to lose the friends and girlfriends, learn secrets of communication with them.
1. Look for a common ground with the friends. Of course, something you have the general, time you began to communicate actively. But over time hobbies and occupations which united you earlier can recede into the background. Not to move away from the friend, you need to find a relevant general hobby.
2. Be so kind as to the friends. Let communication with you bring them only joy. Get rid of a habit to criticize friends. You give them pleasant small gifts without cause. Offer the help during the difficult period of life of your friend. Be attentive in relation to people who are pleasant to you, and your relations will become is stronger.
3. Do not use the friends as free psychological assistance. If you at each meeting complain of life, to tell about the misadventures, to ask council how to arrive in any given situation and to wait for a consolation from the friends, they can begin to be weighed upon your society. Agree, it is selfish, to turn each appointment with people close to you into discussion of your life and to spoil the moaning surrounding mood. Find a subject, pleasant and interesting to all, for a conversation better.
4. Keep up your friendship. Become the initiator and the organizer of a meeting with the friends. Find time to call the friend and to learn how he lives. Sometimes good friendship comes to an end with nothing only because people do not wish to find time at each other. Remember that if move away from the friends, to restore the relations and again to approach it will be very difficult. Therefore you need to appreciate relatives on spirit of people.
5. You do not ask friends about too big services and favors. Also you should not occupy friends on credit the large sums of money. Otherwise you can get into such situation that the person will not be able just to help you, and will be weighed then upon sense of guilt and will begin to avoid you. Or will seem to your friend that you want to use him, time you do not reckon with its interests, asking about too big victims for it for the sake of own benefit.