To congratulate the guy's mother it is always disturbing, perhaps, in the future she will become your mother-in-law. How many it is written stories about opposition of the daughter-in-law and husband's mother, not to count. Begin to form positive opinion on yourself, as about the daughter-in-law and the son's girlfriend, from the moment of the first acquaintance to future mother-in-law. How to congratulate mother of the guy?
Instruction
1. If you are familiar with motherto guy in absentia, find out from the darling its interests, hobbies and preferences in carrying out leisure. The efficient woman will suit as a gift the ticket for a concert or in theater. The practical hostess will like the necessary bagatelle in the house. At the first stages of the relations it is preferable to give neutral things as, without knowing taste of the person, it is possible to appear in an awkward situation. Further, when you know each other better, will be able to learn her desires in a talk.
2. You treat mother of the young man, first of all, as the woman. The beautiful bouquet or the blossoming violets in a pot can be an excellent gift. It is important to beat a gift, to accompany donation with pleasant words that the woman did not conjecture value of a gift.
3. If mother of the guy appreciates heat of a home, and you perfectly prepare, bake for her beautiful pie. But you do not ask it to estimate your culinary abilities, present a gift as the sign of respect and respect for master's and maternal merits of the woman better.
4. If you were invited to a family celebration, prepare a toast and a congratulation in advance. If there are no words, write out verses on a card and read them to the guy's mother. Even, if the relations develop intense, to you always is what to thank this woman for.
5. If the big celebration in the house of future mother-in-law is not planned, it is possible to arrange a lovely family sit-round gathering. Together with the young man lay a table, prepare a festive dinner, decorate kitchen and a corridor with flowers, spheres or hearts. The most important here – your sincere participation, respect and respect of the person who is more senior than you. Express to the guy's mother gratitude for the good son, admire qualities of the woman. In any person there is something that can be appreciated. Make it sincerely.
6. If you never saw the guy's mother, but know that she has a holiday, transmit congratulations through her son. The attention in this case will not remain unnoticed. At closer acquaintance, congratulate mother of the young man by phone. It is possible to read the poem or to tell something kind and pleasant. A call - it is much better, than silence or lack of information on a holiday. Be attentive to date of a birthday of mother of the guy.