If the woman cries, the man loses at first confidence, then judiciousness and, after all, patience. Try not to follow this axiom when your darling cries and it is necessary to console her urgently.
Instruction
1. Think what could cause her tears. Only do not ask her with addiction and do not read any assumptions. It can cause the next attack of sobbings or, on the contrary, the mad rage directed against you.
2. By search of the reason of female tears, always begin with yourself. Perhaps, you give it attention too little recently? Or she (or someone from her relatives) got sick? Troubles at work can be the cause of tears. Remember whether she complained of colleagues or the chief recently, whether took work home. The heaviest option - when someone from her close relatives suddenly died. Here depends only on you whether you will get off with condolences on duty or show patience and endurance and you will help it to cope with a grief.
3. If you began to pay to it less attention because of work or study from which to have a rest in the nearest future will not turn out in any way, take the care of it in the daily relations. Any work or the intense educational schedule – yet not an occasion not to please it with any joint actions (for example, to do shopping together with it in shop or to make together a dinner).
4. If she got sick, then methods and ways of a consolation will depend on weight of a disease and on your step. If it has a banal cold, give to drink her hot tea with raspberry or a lemon, give tablets, put to bed, wrap up more warmly and kiss. That to it it was not boring and lonely without you, buy it several interesting books, disks with cheerful movies. If she is a little sentimental, present her a huge soft toy and a card "Recover rather" in which write that you very much miss it.
5. If the disease has long character or operation is required, try to distract it from gloomy thoughts, having offered together (surely together!) to be engaged in something interesting and useful at the same time. Here any option can approach, up to cross stitching or cutting out by the fret saw. However any occupation or a game will have to have a competition element. It is necessary in order that darling felt in herself forces to cope with the illness.
6. To help to cope with problems at work quite hardly. You do not speak to it that you will deal with colleagues of your darling (except for harassment). Just tell it that anyway you will always be near and together resolve any issues even if it will decide to leave service.
7. If was seriously ill or someone from relatives of your darling died, silence will be the best consolation. Just sit down nearby, take her palm and squeeze in the hand. If you something can support, make it, but you do not start a conversation about it at once.