So many problems fall down our heads, sometimes it seems that it is simply impossible to solve them. There passes time, way out are found of difficult situations. Friends have not the best times too and they share the problems with the closest people. With those who will understand and will sympathize.
It is required to you
- The upset friend
Instruction
1. Now it is worth postponing all affairs, to attentively listen, find proper words and to try to encourage the friend who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown, to give it elementary support. Remember that the ancient proverb says: "The shared joy is a double joy, and the divided grief is a floor of a grief". The problem can be because of parting with the soulmate, sudden loss of the relative, obstacles in work or failures in study. It is insufficiently simple to express to the friend condolences, many people consider a duty to pronounce heartless words: "Everything will pass", "You will be able". Similar words to calm in a tragic and serious situation it is useless, it is better to touch together all options, to look with optimism at a problem.
2. Give examples of catastrophic circumstances which could occur, for example an earthquake, a flood, typhus epidemic, and instead of them there was only a small difficulty. Not the brick fell on the head. Life in the variety will often present "gifts". We only need to make a good deed – to offer a hand to the loved one, to help it to rise, force to rethink the behavior and views.
3. And already the first smile upon the face, to the friend it becomes amusing that he perceived all this as the big drama. Gradually he begins to calm down, sees that outside the window the sun brightly shines, understands that you should not be killed so strongly that all difficulties – a temporary phenomenon. Remind him that at each of us the unfavourable fate, does not know the future nobody.