Many men are reticent and are not sentimental, apparently, that they, such rough, courageous and resolute, are not afraid of any difficulties and do not pay attention to troubles, achieving the objective. But it absolutely not so. Simply, education of boys another and manifestation of emotions for them is equivalent to manifestation of the weakness. Nevertheless, men also need a consolation when to them it is difficult and sad.
Instruction
1. If you already know the guy quite well, you, of course, will notice at once his suppressed mood even if he, still, cracks jokes and pretends that at it everything is fine. Do not disregard its such state, in hope that he will cope with a problem. It, of course, happens, but it will be much easier for it to feel your support, and he will always appreciate it.
2. It is not necessary to stick to it with importunate questions. Just pay it slightly more attention, tendernesses and caress. Tell it that you noticed its state and remind that you are always ready to support him, and your love always with it. Even without knowing in what business, you believe that he will cope with difficulties and will find a way out of the most complex situation.
3. If he wants to share with you, and after such words he, for certain, will want, then listen to him attentively, without interrupting, and try to constrain emotions, not to panic and, especially, not to laugh if the problem seems to you far-fetched. Ask him the specifying questions and if it needs your council, ask time for considering, and then offer it versions of the decision. Even if it will not use them, it will be pleasant to it that you so seriously treated its problem.
4. Try to distract and entertain him even if he will make it reluctantly. The fine proverb "Tomorrow is a new day" is about you. Pull out it on walk, to friends. If he slightly distracts, then the solution will be found quicker. And emotional unloading to it will not damage at all and will a little weaken internal nervous tension.
5. Just be with it, touch it more often, give smacking kiss once again, but do not become very persuasive, it is enough to touch of it by a hand, passing by. It is found already out what the touch of the woman does the man stronger, probably, it goes from the childhood. Use the magic arsenal to console the guy, to support and give it new forces for overcoming vital difficulties.