"That marriage was happy, the husband and the wife have to be from one test!", - her father Gerald in the novel "Gone with the Wind" so edified the eccentrical beauty Scarlett. Really, if young people though in something are similar at each other, then it already speaks well for the strong and long-term relations. Of course, there are also exceptions, but is rare! What should the loving couple wishing to build up the strong, reliable relationship be guided by?
Instruction
1. Some young couples confuse such concepts as "love" and "love". As a rule, love passes pretty quickly, and on it all also comes to an end, that is quarrels, reproaches, finally - parting begin. And here "love" passes further into the following stage - "respect", "mutual understanding". From here a conclusion follows: after you met the person, and it seems to you that your communication is strong, try to recognize him closer, do not rush in "whirlpool" with the head.
2. If marriage was preceded by quite long period of courtings, "grindings" of characters, then the relations between the man and the woman can quite be reliable and strong.
3. If you with the young man differently treat sex, then strong your relations, most likely, will not be. You can love sincerely each other, belong with mutual respect, but it will fully not be able to replace lack of harmony in intimate life. For example, if you are timid, reserved by nature moreover received education in Puritan spirit, then sooner or later almost for certain "will pull the husband on the party" for search of thrills.
4. Well, and if you derive mutual pleasure from sex, then a situation opposite! Then the relations, most likely, will be strong. Take an interest at darling that he wishes, can him something is not pleasant in respect of sex. Do not hesitate to speak on intimate subjects, be sincere with each other.
5. And how to be if in the sexual plan between the man and the woman full harmony, but at the same time absolute not similarity literally in everything? Then, alas, it is necessary to remember the wise words of Gerald addressed to the daughter. About what strong and reliable relations it is possible to speak if the woman has absolutely different tastes, habits? Here even the harmony will not help with intimate life.
6. If you have though a few common interests and hobbies, then it is possible to count on the strong, long-term relations safely.