Sometimes it is very difficult to convince parents of something, especially, if it concerns serious things, for example, of purchase of the computer, an aquarium, a dog or to release you on a visit to friends with spending the night.
1. If you need really to convince of something parents, but you do not know as, for a start try to understand what prevents them to give the consent at once. It is not necessary to quarrel, and just find out their reaction to your request.
2. In order that your request did not look a children's whim on which you should not pay attention, think what that thing or a trip is so necessary for you for.
3. You can tell that your friends have a similar laptop, the mobile phone, or their parents release in a backpacking, and you will be forced to stay at home. It is possible to give examples only after you are able to explain why this thing to you is important.
4. If you promise something to the parents in exchange on purchase, a trip, it is necessary to keep this promise, otherwise next time you will not be believed and will consider insufficiently responsible and the adult to trust you. For example, you promised that if buy you the laptop, then you finish study in the current year on "perfectly". But laziness to learn you lessons, there is a wish to play new fascinating games, to take a walk on the street. You violate a promise, and as a result parents can just take away from you the computer until your progress rises to the level promised by you.
5. Never quarrel with parents if about something you ask them. If cannot buy you an expensive thing because of lack of money, then you should not shout, fall on a floor in a hysterics, to accuse parents of poverty – they and so do everything that can that you were dressed and full. Try to refuse a part of money for pocket expenses on paying a part of the sum for a thing necessary to you. It will prove to parents once again that you already rather adult also know the price to money.
6. If you need to go somewhere, then do not hesitate and call to the aid the friends to whom your parents trust. If your friends are charged for you, then it is quite possible to get permission to the action started by you.