Hostility of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, quite widespread problem in many families. Two women divide among themselves love of one man. How to struggle with jealousy of the daughter-in-law?
Instruction
1. You should not consider the daughter-in-law under a microscope, trying to discover even the slightest shortcomings. There are no ideal men and women. Your son has weaknesses and imperfections too. More important how young people cope with it as they supplement each other. When the man and the woman suit one another, feel together happy, they gradually change for the better, seek to become better for the second half. So, often inveterate party-goers, turn into fans of a home. And the most important that in life of your son there was a person who just as you strongly loves it.
2. The mother-in-law who carps, for the least thing, to the daughter-in-law from outside looks comically and silly. Such behavior very much is evident and becomes a fun subject for all family. Be wiser, you should not expose yourself from not the best side before relatives and relatives. Maternal jealousy, the phenomenon quite natural, but you should not go too far. Such behavior you not only get the daughter-in-law, but also upset the son, perhaps, provoking conflict situations in his family.
3. Do not try to control life of young family. Whether it is necessary to keep ringing and check often everything as it should be, it is impossible to come to visit without invitation whether to track enough well the daughter-in-law looks after your son. You will only irritate with it young family, there will be conflict situations, as a result you will just push away from yourself the son.
4. Try to distract yourself from unpleasant thoughts. Now your son has the family, at you the. And has to be. Find to yourself new hobby, a hobby. Meet friends, try to make something for yourself favourite that was postponed due to the lack of time long ago. Do not worry, your child will never forget you, mother at him one. He will surely find time to visit, or to call on a visit.
5. Remember the relations with the mother-in-law. You would like the same behavior from its party, or you also suffered from persuasive attention of mother of the husband. Calm down, consider a situation. Your son has own family in which he is happy that he can be the best award for mother, than the arranged, happy life of her child?