The birth of twins, is double joy for parents, but also the cares and efforts increased by two. Councils how to spouses to cope with the birth of twins.
Instruction
1. It is a high time to accustom itself to organization. Be adjusted on the fact that you always need to remain accurate sane. Correctly goals, adoption of the general rules for all family, an order in everything, important factors which will help spouses to cope with daily difficulties.
2. All parents try to become the best for children and seek to cope with all affairs and cares independently. You should not refuse from the given helping hand. If the family tries to help in every possible way you, with gratitude accept their help. Even if you trust nobody the children, ask to help you with cleaning, cooking, to buy necessary products. You should not refuse the help out of politeness, time will come, and you will surely repay a debt to your assistant.
3. You look at everything with optimism. Do not dare to be upset and grieve even if it seems that your twins will dement you. Imagine those women who cannot have children and would give everything for similar efforts because of which you are upset.
4. Surely arrange rest for two, for parents, but not for twins. Spend evening together, you will go to cinema in cafe, stay for a while with friends. That you could find a little time for yourself your family with pleasure will sit with children, as a last resort it is possible to employ the professional nurse who will not allow your twins to miss and take care of them properly.
5. Personal time. Each of spouses has to have personal time which he devotes only to himself that is important. To keep calm and the concentration can only that person who can satisfy the requirements and dares to relax sometimes. Plan the general schedule so that in turn on a small amount of time to be engaged in what there is a wish. Let one of spouses to go with kids to walk, or independently, or with someone's help will be engaged in them.
6. Keep the right for a mistake. Be not obsessed that made something is not right.something is not right.something is not right. The person cannot know everything. Having made a mistake, you expand the knowledge do not repeat an oversight any more. You not the superman also cannot demand from yourself impossible.